Plain English. Nothing sneaky.
Last updated 10 September 2026
This place only works if people are real. Write what you actually feel, not what performs well. There is nothing to win here: no likes, no followers, no reach.
No insults, threats, pressuring, sexual harassment, or repeated contact after someone has stepped away. Unmatching is a complete answer and needs no explanation.
Nothing that attacks people for who they are: race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, disability, nationality.
No sexual content, no explicit descriptions, no solicitation. Absolutely nothing involving minors, ever. That gets reported to the authorities.
I Feel You is for adults only and no one under 18 is allowed. Beyond that, and without exception: anything that sexualises a minor, or that tries to groom, exploit or endanger a child, is banned.
This covers child sexual abuse material in any form, sexualised images or descriptions of minors whether real, drawn or AI-generated, sexual messages aimed at a minor, and any attempt to arrange or ask for that kind of contact.
Reports about a child's safety are the first thing we look at. A person reviews every one, we do not wait for reports to add up to a threshold, the account is removed, and we escalate to law enforcement and to child-protection organisations, including Child Focus and the federal police in Belgium, and the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children where it applies. We keep only what the law requires and cooperate fully with any investigation.
To report this: use Block on the person's profile or chat, choose "Underage or fake identity" or "Something else that breaks the rules", and add what you saw; or email hello@ifeelyou.dev with "child safety" in the subject.
We follow the child-safety laws that apply where our members are, and we review these standards regularly. Questions about them: hello@ifeelyou.dev.
No money requests, investment pitches, promotions, recruiting or links to outside platforms.
What someone writes here stays here. Don't screenshot, repost or share another person's reflections or messages.
Block the person. On their profile or in the chat, tap block, pick the reason that fits, and add anything useful. Choosing a rule-breaking reason files it with us as a report, and the conversation is removed for both of you straight away.
For anything urgent, especially a threat or a child-safety concern, email hello@ifeelyou.dev as well. We review reports quickly, serious breaches lead to permanent removal, and we involve the authorities where the law requires it.